I do want to be at the next level in my relationship before I ship. Four years is long enough, we can handle it...even if we have only done long distance for a couple months tops. It will make us stronger and it's what we need.
Yes, he plays video games a lot. And we don't get out much. But life isn't what it was when we were 19 years old. We have jobs and bills and separate schedules. We make time for eachother and we are spontaneous when it counts.
I love him, and I see potential in him. It's my relationship, my life...so can we just leave it alone?
